Category Archives: Life with a Partner

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A Case of Bad Timing

So we all know this gay and Christian thing is a journey. We have read the accounts of different people taking all sorts of different times to come to a place where they can live with integrity within their sexuality. We also know that this looks different for people.

It is because we are all so very complex in what we bring to a decision that many times conclusions vary.  But I hope we also know that its OK to be different.  To be walking alongside folk who are all in different parts of their own journey.  It’s so good when those paths are parallel for a while, and we can feel the support of a friend with us. That is all so nice and good and don’t we all feel special and supportive and loving.

But what about when it’s your partner who is on a way different page, and it’s coming up to Christmas and you have to decide where to have family dinner!  Arghhhhhh…. That is bad timing – we are so not on the same page on this one!